Character and conduct

abrasive

uh-BRAY-siv · adjective

Rough enough to scrape a surface; harsh or irritating in manner.

A rough sieve making a donkey-like bray, a mnemonic for abrasive

Memory connection

Picture “a bray sieve

A coarse metal sieve scrapes your palm while producing a donkey-like bray. It is abrasive in both texture and sound.

The sound cue helps you reach the scene; the action in the scene carries you from the scene to the definition.

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Meaning in context

His abrasive response made a routine disagreement feel personal.
The cleaner is too abrasive for the polished stone surface.

Abrasive can be literal, like sandpaper, or figurative, describing speech and behavior that rub people the wrong way.

Common patterns

  • abrasive manner
  • abrasive material
  • sound abrasive

Quick check

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Which person sounds abrasive?

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